Influencing and Inspiring Women around You
Being a woman is more than just clothes, makeup, gossip, and judging.
Most of the people talking about feminism, nowadays, hardly know anything about it. For them, feminism means being able to do whatever women want and hating men.
What I have observed in the past few days, women are reaching to the stars, have conquered the film industry, are running the top most companies, and freely talking about their views about life, which is just brilliant.
More power to everyone out there who are chasing their dreams.
But there are certain women who are the reason for the downfall of other women. For instance, take the women who have left their careers and taking care of their families and homes.
Instead of appreciating these women for all the sacrifices they have made happily or inspiring them to follow their respective career paths, these women are being looked down upon.
And some women insult other women by gossiping about their personal lives, judging them by their clothes, marital status or by their views about children.
It is so wrong that women today are letting other women down. In fact, no company or government can deny us equal status if we truly stand together.
Be an inspiration for women out there who need some role model to look upon; be the kind of woman your children can get inspired from.
Following are some of the qualities which define a true woman of substance and how you can use these tips to keep inspiring other women around you as well:
Inspiring them with your appearance
It is a natural instinct for people to listen to those and get inspired by the people who maintain themselves and are attractive.
So if you wish to inspire women around you, it is important that you take care of yourself in the first place.
It can be difficult when you have crossed a certain age, but you can be such an inspiration for women by graciously accepting your age and still following your dreams.
You can make use of these anti-aging tips in order to maintain your health, to look radiant, and to keep impressing everyone around you.
Be kind and thoughtful
Your words define your personality and tell who you actually are. It is very easy to talk without any filter and people who talk from heart usually complain that they are considered rude; but do you actually feel that talking without considering the feelings of someone benefitting anyone?
Try talking politely and with kindness; you cannot imagine the effect your politeness can have on some people. By being considerate towards people, you can help them to feel good about themselves.
Stand for what you believe in
Standing for what you believe in, not only for yourself but for people around you, can inspire and give hope to many people around you. When you speak your heart out, it inspires people around you to do the same thing.
They stand up for their rights and inspire other people to do the same.
This becomes a vicious circle and helps to inspire and motivate women all over the country and spreads the true meaning of feminism.
Motivate other women
Instead of insulting people who are not able to follow their heart, talk to them and motivate them to take a step ahead.
Not all women are able to talk about their problems and certainly, do not stand up for themselves to solve their problems.
Many women are still getting raped, sexually or physically abused, or even emotionally abused; but they are too scared insecure to do anything about it.
Encourage them to stand up for themselves; shot them that life is beautiful and that nobody should ever settle for anything less than they deserve.
Do not judge
It is not your job to judge or gossip about anyone’s personal lives.
I have seen women who talk and flaunt about being a feminist, and then the next day, she is judging some lady from her office for wearing clothes that are too revealing or excusing someone of being a gold-digger.
You can never understand the opinions of other people unless you experience their life; so it is better to keep your judgments to yourself and think about the better good.
Challenge them to be their best
Everyone loves a healthy competition, but a true woman inspires others to be their best and to keep improving in life.
Aware of other women about their caliber and their talent, and encourage them to bring it out and be their very best.
They deserve to be appreciated for the work they do; whether that woman is a waitress, a home keeper, an artist, or a CEO of a multinational company.
